I say grin and bear it. Fighting corporate counsel on their grant agreements is not worth it. Most of these conditions are manageable. However, if they retain control or ownership then they aren't gifts at all but are contracts.
Most of what you mention for conditions are "normal" with sponsored research grants. For those, it's not Advancement that has to honor the conditions but Sponsored Programs. If they are willing to live with them that is their call!
However, if there is an agreement that includes something more arduous than what's mentioned, I would let the gift acceptance committee make the call.
But, if you want a template, find an agreement from a major funder that you like - and with terms you live with. If you need to push back on occasion, you could say, "Here's the sort of language we use with the Gates Foundation. Will that work for you?"
John
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