The short answer is yes - these actions typically represent charitable activities.
The first item is a bit suspect because the meeting was attended by (and benefited from the catering) such a small number of individuals. My preference in these cases is to encourage the Board member to make their donation to the annual fund. [I assume you had budgeted to cover the catering costs anyway].
For the second item, I'd look into issuing company credit cards to your staff who frequently engage in these activities. But, yes, as long as they provide copies of the receipts reflecting the legal name of the person who paid the bill, a standard GIK receipt can be provided without any dollar amount reflected.
John
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