Thanks of the response John as well as the Anonymity Protocol!
How do you handle folks who want to be partially off the grid - "remove my address, but keep my email"?
On one hand, great - we still have a way to communicate. On the other hand, some of our partners still depend on an address for research or alumni club assignment, so it puts us in a bit of a guessing game about their intent. Are they saying "no mail ever again," or just "I'm currently living the RV life"?
Curious how others balance respecting preferences with keeping records useful.
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Patty Herrity
Sr. Director - Gift & Data Managment
University of Notre Dame
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Original Message:
Sent: 02-04-2026 09:49 AM
From: Patty Herrity
Subject: Donor - Going off the Grid?
Thanks of the response John as well as the Anonymity Protocol!
How do you handle folks who want to be partially off the grid - "remove my address, but keep my email"?
On one hand, great - we still have a way to communicate. On the other hand, some of our partners still depend on an address for research or alumni club assignment, so it puts us in a bit of a guessing game about their intent. Are they saying "no mail ever again," or just "I'm currently living the RV life"?
Curious how others balance respecting preferences with keeping records useful.
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Patty Herrity
Sr. Director - Gift & Data Managment
University of Notre Dame
pherrit1@nd.edu
Original Message:
Sent: 02-04-2026 09:30 AM
From: John Taylor
Subject: Donor - Going off the Grid?
If this is "common" for you, I think there's something else going on. I rarely encounter this. Instead, I hear of donors requesting various degrees of anonymity for their donations, but almost never do I hear them tell an organization they never want to hear from them.
Having a firm, enforceable anonymity protocol might be a better first step. Indeed, there are ways to completely erase someone from your system, but that's a last resort. Instead, I work with donors to understand what they are really looking for without executing a full "divorce" from your institution.
I am attaching an Anonymity Protocol template I've used for many years, which seems to work well in meeting most donor needs.
John
John H. Taylor, PrincipalJohn H. Taylor Consulting, LLC
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Durham, NC 27705
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Original Message:
Sent: 2/4/2026 10:20:00 AM
From: Patty Herrity
Subject: Donor - Going off the Grid?
Hi all - curious how others handle this common (and slightly mysterious) scenario.
When alumni/parents/friends decide they'd prefer to go fully "off the grid" and ask to remove their mailing address and/or email, what does your team do? Full suppression, partial restrictions, secret sauce I haven't thought of?
Would love to hear how you balance honoring preferences with keeping your database functional. Appreciate any wisdom!
Patty
Univerity of Notre Dame
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Patty Herrity
Sr. Director - Gift & Data Managment
University of Notre Dame
pherrit1@nd.edu
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